Why are women abused???
This is probably going to piss off the women readers but hey, sometimes the truth hurts. Guys, this may piss you off too but.....WHATEVER!
We all know of at least one woman who has been abused my a spouse or significant other at some point in her life. What we don't know is the reason why she was abused. If you ask her why, you know what she's going to say right? "I don't know why he did me like this. I was just sitting at the table in the kitchen and he walked over and hit me. Nothing was ever said to him." I must admit that in the world today that's possible but also very unlikely.
Let's be real ladies. Most of you that have been beat up before were following your man around the house fussing at him about something that was unimportant and insignificant and you refused to leave him alone. How do I know it wasn't important? Because you probably don't even remember why you were fighting. He probably asked you to leave him alone and you continued to be in his face. When he walked away you walked behind him. He gets into his car and you beat on the windows or stand in the front of it so that he can't leave or standing in front of the door so that he can't leave. Is any of this stuff ringing a bell? Some of you probably even went as far as slapping him and felt sorry for yourself after you were slapped back. Let me be clear here. None of the things here are acceptable reasons to beat on a woman; however, you ladies should know that EVERYONE has a breaking point and being with a man means that you know how to push his buttons. You've seen your man lose it before and you know exactly how much he can take. Don't antagonize him! Answer this question ladies, "If a woman did to you what you do to your man while arguing, would you jump on her?". I'm just saying. A lot of women try to push their man over the edge so that when he hits her she can dial 9-1-1. Well the problem with that is that the police get their after you've had your behind handed to you and some women are sadly beaten to death. The police can't do you any good then.
Ladies, if you are with a man that beats on you and you stay you are an idiot! I'm just saying. Don't just stand there and be a crash dummy. You better get out of there ASAP. And don't come at us with this "but I love him garbage", ESPECIALLY if he's one of those types that just does it because his day was bad or he's drunk and all of a sudden needs a punching bag. Get out of there before he kills you. There isn't that much love in the world.
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We all know of at least one woman who has been abused my a spouse or significant other at some point in her life. What we don't know is the reason why she was abused. If you ask her why, you know what she's going to say right? "I don't know why he did me like this. I was just sitting at the table in the kitchen and he walked over and hit me. Nothing was ever said to him." I must admit that in the world today that's possible but also very unlikely.
Let's be real ladies. Most of you that have been beat up before were following your man around the house fussing at him about something that was unimportant and insignificant and you refused to leave him alone. How do I know it wasn't important? Because you probably don't even remember why you were fighting. He probably asked you to leave him alone and you continued to be in his face. When he walked away you walked behind him. He gets into his car and you beat on the windows or stand in the front of it so that he can't leave or standing in front of the door so that he can't leave. Is any of this stuff ringing a bell? Some of you probably even went as far as slapping him and felt sorry for yourself after you were slapped back. Let me be clear here. None of the things here are acceptable reasons to beat on a woman; however, you ladies should know that EVERYONE has a breaking point and being with a man means that you know how to push his buttons. You've seen your man lose it before and you know exactly how much he can take. Don't antagonize him! Answer this question ladies, "If a woman did to you what you do to your man while arguing, would you jump on her?". I'm just saying. A lot of women try to push their man over the edge so that when he hits her she can dial 9-1-1. Well the problem with that is that the police get their after you've had your behind handed to you and some women are sadly beaten to death. The police can't do you any good then.
Ladies, if you are with a man that beats on you and you stay you are an idiot! I'm just saying. Don't just stand there and be a crash dummy. You better get out of there ASAP. And don't come at us with this "but I love him garbage", ESPECIALLY if he's one of those types that just does it because his day was bad or he's drunk and all of a sudden needs a punching bag. Get out of there before he kills you. There isn't that much love in the world.
Once again...this is from my perspective. If you differently or want to comment, sign into Google and comment below.
And how many catch themselves leaving and getting right into another ,and swear that one better than the last one ... One time is enough ... And yes most of the time men are provoked .. Not always tho .but still not a reason ! But both parties are at fault when the other chooses to stay they are jusy as much at fault So if its happening just get out !
ReplyDeleteI agree! Once the cycle begins there is usually no turning around. It just continues to get worse over time.
DeleteYes it does ..and its just stupid to stay!! Like you would say "idiots" some peoples minds are not stable enough to wake up .some wake up some dont !
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